How to Stop Catastrophizing and Assuming the Worst

Your boss sends a message: "Can we talk later?" Within seconds, your mind has written the whole story. You're getting fired. You'll lose your income. You won't make rent. Your life is falling apart. By the time "later" arrives, you've suffered through a catastrophe that — nine times out of ten — turns out to be nothing at all.

This is catastrophizing: the mind's habit of leaping to the worst possible outcome and treating it as the likely one. If you do this, you're not irrational or dramatic. You have an anxious brain doing what anxious brains do, trying, in its own overzealous way, to protect you.